Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: 8 Things Women Say They Don’t Not Want

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: What NOT to Buy for Your Sweetheart
Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and if you’re still searching for the perfect gift, listen up! While jewelry, romantic getaways, and personalized gifts are always a safe bet, some presents are better left on the shelf.

To save you from a Valentine’s Day disaster, I gathered a list of gifts women do not want to receive from their significant others. The list comes from Satista where women across the U.S. were surveyed and weighed in on Valentine’s Day gifts they liked the least. So, fellas, you're in luck! You can consider this your official "DO NOT BUY" list for February 14th!

1. Household Appliances
Nothing says “I love you” like…household a vacuum cleaner. Nope. While appliances are useful, gifting something that screams housework is a fast track to the doghouse. Even if she has mentioned wanting a new air fryer, Valentine’s Day is not the time.

Unless she specifically asked for a gym membership or a book on “how to be more organized,” avoid these at all costs. Gifts like diet books, workout gear, or online self-improvement courses. It ain't gonna end well.

Consider this your official "DO NOT BUY" list for February 14th!ge even with good intentions. You might think you’re helping, but she’ll probably be reminding you about this mistake for years to come.

2.  DIY Coupons for “Special” Acts of Service
We get it—life gets busy, and suddenly, it’s February 13th, and you’re scrambling. But making a coupon book filled with “One Free Hug” or “Romantic Dinner at Home” isn’t as thoughtful as you think. It just tells her you forgot and threw something together at the last minute.

3. Lingerie (Unless You Know EXACTLY What She Wants)
Lingerie can be tricky. Get it too big, and she thinks you see her as bigger than she is. Get it too small, and now she’s wondering if you wish she were smaller. Unless she has given you specific details (brand, size, style, color), it’s best to skip this one altogether.

4. Tickets… to YOUR Favorite Sporting Event
A romantic getaway? Great idea. A night out? Perfect. But if your idea of a date night is taking her to watch your favorite team play while she sits through four-quarters of something she doesn’t care about—think again. Some women may love a sporting event, but if she hasn’t hinted at it, don’t assume it’s the dream gift.

5. Spanx
DON'T DO IT, fellas! Are you calling her fat? Of course not. Right? However, if you buy these there is no telling what her reaction is going to

5. Car Maintenance or Oil Change Certificates 
Practical? Yes. Romantic? Not even a little. While keeping her car running smoothly is a nice gesture, this is more of a random Tuesday kind of gift—not something wrapped up with a bow on Valentine’s Day.

6. Heart-Shaped Boxes of Mystery Chocolates 
Look, chocolate is usually a great gift, but those mass-produced heart-shaped boxes filled with unidentifiable fillings? Not so much. One minute, she’s excited about chocolate, and the next, she’s biting into a weird cherry-flavored goo. If you’re going with chocolate, get her the good stuff from a local chocolatier instead.

Final Thoughts
Valentine’s Day is all about showing appreciation and love, so put a little thought into your gift! Instead of these no-go items, consider something personal—like a handwritten letter, a fun experience together, or a thoughtful surprise tailored just for her.

Got any terrible Valentine’s Day gifts you’ve received before? Drop them in the comments!